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Getting too emotional giving bad effects most of the time, love is en exceptional. When someone got very mad, on my husband opinion its mean that the reality they made was different with what they have and exactly different even with what they really want to have right before they got mad or with what exactly not even close to what they are complaining about, totally different.
So when you got angry with someone because they are not doing exactly as you hoped for then you made two different things with two different attitude. First if you face it with patient then you knew you really need to communicate what you really want because they made it for you, means its good for each other, mean that -in my husband opinion- you build the goals you are making right now in your relationship, built it up or spread it wider, you made forward move toward future.Its a good thing, developed by skills of being patient.
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Another sided attitude when you got angry is that you got carried away by doing something bad until the things really bad happens, its mean that you build a new reality beyond the actual reality that being addressed having a problem that makes you mad. I think if we done this second attitude over and over again we might made new reality into something that we really believe, this may cause the goals of being together by having good relationship with our partner will soon be a hell.
To be patient is the best expression of how you love someone, it tells who you loved that you still loved them at all. Patient mean that you may angry with good attitude and still keep your feet on the ground giving yourself chance to going up by learn all methods to communicate what you want all time, no limit. Limitation will bring you one step ahead to hell such hurt, heart or even physically, in the end you are going to be a mental, no doubt.